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I lost a lot of things along with you:
1. my sanity – you made me question everything. every thought, every word
that (n)ever left my lips. every moment I missed waiting for your permission.
2. my sense of gravity – you were my center, my core, my tether.
without you, I am floating aimlessly, at the mercy of the tempest.
3. my spark – you ignited a fire in my soul and swallowed the flames whole.
you left me empty and cold, aching for warmth.
4. my heart – its wholeness. it was priceless and irreplaceable.
and, before you came along, I thought it was unbreakable. oh, how naïve of me.
5. my ability to sleep – I spend my nights tossing and turning and wondering
how I could possibly still be hurting this much. all the sleep in the world
won’t be enough to put my soul at ease. you stole that from me.
6. my creativity – I used to be able to write any and everything on my mind
with no holds barred. but you made it impossible to speak freely and truly,
not without admitting what you did and who you are.
but the amount of things I gained
now that you’re gone are worth much more:
1. my desire for growth – without you, I’ve nowhere else to grow but up.
2. my lust for life – after years of crawling through the desert on
my hands and knees, I inhale it greedily. without you, I find that I’m so thirsty.
3. my appetite – I’m so hungry for healing. the feeling of fractured bones
mending, an infection burning off, a fever breaking. without you around
to repress my yearning, I’m finally craving the curing.
4. my capacity to love – now that I’m no longer wasting it all on you,
I find that my reserves are vast and infinite, and I have more than
enough to heal myself with. I should’ve started there in the first place.
5. my freedom – with my heart no longer your hostage, finally out of reach
from your caustic touch, I find that I’m capable of so much more than I ever dreamed of.
with it, I have the strength to reclaim all those things you took with you, to rediscover
parts of myself I never really knew. with it, I’ll learn how to love myself
better than I ever loved you.
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